What should I do to prepare for the wedding?

  

Preparing for the wedding

• Preparations of the bride before marriage 

The bride needs to plan well before her wedding , she must make decisions and make arrangements carefully and calmly, so that she is fully prepared for this event, for this it is necessary to take into account some special things and arrangements that the bride needs to accomplish and organize before marriage , including the following:

Personal preparations

It is preferable to prepare a list of things that the bride may need after the wedding to make sure that she is not forgotten when buying, including:

1. Various clothes, including everyday clothes, work clothes, dresses for events and celebrations, and other clothes.
2. Bags that suit work, different occasions, and distinctive wallets.
3. Beautiful accessories that you need to beautify yourself at home, and others when going out, and celebrations, including barrettes, pins, and various hair bands.
4. Comfortable shoes for work, for different places, and elegant shoes for special occasions.
5. Various cosmetics and perfumes that increase the attractiveness of the wife and highlight her beauty.
6. Personal care tools such as creams, powders, deodorant, toothpaste, special soap preferred by the wife, or her own shampoo and conditioner, hair removal tools, and others.
7. Bride's bathrobe.

Psychological preparations  

Preparing a bride for her wedding requires complete psychological preparation for this step, sufficient maturity, great awareness of the importance of the next stage in her life, acceptance of the changes that will happen to her, the responsibility that will fall on her with the presence of new individuals in her life, as well as the ability to communicate well with the spouse so that they reach stability in the relationship during the courtship period to move into married life with all love, affection and understanding.

Aesthetic fittings

There are many personal matters related to the appearance of the bride as an attractive queen, who steals attention, steals the spotlight, and dazzles her husband and the rest of those present on the expected wedding night, and among these preparations are the following:

Self care:

The bride's self-care includes several things, some of which may be routine steps in a woman's life, namely:

1. Taking care of the skin and enhancing its freshness through exfoliation, moisturizing and maintaining its purity, whether at home or by visiting the beauty and skin care center.
2.  Hairdressing and taking care of it through therapeutic masks that give it vitality, softness and shine by following some home methods or visiting beauty salons, especially when you want to change hair color and cut it.
3. Taking care of physical hygiene by removing excess hair from the body, maintaining its cleanliness, smoothness, and exfoliation, and making a refreshing, wonderful and relaxing bath for it, or doing massage sessions to relieve and reduce stress.
4. dental care by visiting the dentist's office; To get a bright smile and snow-white teeth that will increase the beauty of her smile that will appear in her wedding photos.
5. Taking care of the hands and feet by constantly moisturizing them and taking care of their cleanliness and trimming.

Get enough rest and sleep:

the bride needs to sleep at least 8-10 hours a day; To maintain the health, activity and comfort of her body, and to avoid the appearance of annoying dark circles under her eyes.

Follow a healthy diet: 

The remotely balanced system helps to maintain the health of the bride , enhances the freshness and radiance of her skin , gives her the necessary energy to better prepare and carry out her activities, and she can consult a nutritionist to make a healthy and balanced diet program for her.

wedding preparations

There are some basic preparations that need to be organized and made in advance for the bride; Ensure that her appearance is distinguished at her expected wedding, taking into account the preparation of a budget in advance in proportion to her financial capabilities, and then prepare for the following matters:

Choosing a wedding dress:

The bride can buy or rent the dress, preferably a few months before the wedding; to allow it to make the appropriate adjustments.

Choosing an attractive hairstyle:

The hairdo is chosen in accordance with the design of the wedding dress, and according to the bride's taste and style.

Makeup: 

It is preferable for the bride to agree in advance with the beautician who will apply her wedding makeup that matches her skin color, hairstyle and dress; to give her a charming look on her special day.

Choosing the right and comfortable shoes: 

The right shoes should be chosen and tried on well, so that it is comfortable for the bride to be able to move comfortably, dance to the rhythm of the music smoothly without feeling pain or discomfort.

Suitable accessories: 

The accessories are chosen so that they match the design of the wedding dress, and the bride's hairstyle; to increase the beauty of her appearance.

The bride's spare bag: 

It is a bag containing various tools that help the bride to overcome any problems she faces after wearing a wedding dress, makeup, and preparing her appearance, including: a makeup kit containing various cosmetics, a small set of sewing tools, and personal care products, such as deodorant, perfume, moisturizing hand cream, headache medications, and others.

Create a farewell celebration for celibacy:

It is a celebration that aims to revive the last nights of the old life of the bride as a single female in preparation for the marital nest, which follows the wedding night, with the participation of her friends, relatives and guests of the invited family.

• Advice before marriage 

There is a set of tips that both partners should know and agree on before marriage, as the marital relationship should be built on important foundations and principles, including the following: 

Mutual respect: 

To have a healthy life and a happy marriage, the spouses must respect each other, take into account the feelings of both parties and avoid doing something that upsets both, in addition to taking each other's opinion on decisions and current things, and that one of them should not make the decision alone.

Listen to each other: 

Mutual listening is one of the best ways in which couples can understand each other, by listening to each other, not being busy with other things, such as the phone, or TV, and taking into account each other's feelings. 

Maintaining constant communication: 

Pleasant talk and constant communication are important things that should be present in a relationship, harsh words that seek to harm a partner should be avoided, maintain effective communication, talk and come up with things that they agree to do for their future life.

Maintaining trust:

Couples should not break each other's trust at the first obstacle they face, take care to avoid revealing each other's secrets to others, respect privacy and not spy on private personal matters such as phone and email, because they are necessary things for a happy married life.

Saying the words that a couple likes:

Saying loving and kind words, such as the word I love you every now and then, and proving it with deeds is one of the good things in a relationship to make it successful and happy.

Specialty of time to the other party:

With so many commitments, some couples may forget to make time for their partner, so taking a walk or spending time together at a restaurant can be something nice that makes married life better.